Talking to The Driver
We don't have to wait to feel like our dreams have come true.
THE COURSE
Talking
to the
Driver
We don't have to wait to feel like our dreams have come true.
My promise to you is a life of peace, purpose, and passion with far less effort than you are putting in at the moment. Living more conscious lives is no longer difficult or as mysterious as we may have been led to believe. And here I have distilled the essence of what it really means to live a life by design. How freely available the choice to feel the way we want to really is, and how much the world according to us reflects how we feel. What we experience as circumstances - what we see confirmation of in the world - the memories and thoughts we have access tom - how people are treating us - what we think we can do, and so will take on. These are all a consequence of an involuntary and unconscious reactive pattern, that is running in the background of our lives. It is very simple to change, we just have to know how. We have to understand the true enemy we are up against.
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We have far more control over the results we are experiencing and what we imagine is possible than we exercise our will over, because we have failed to understand the overarching effect of the state of mind that characterizes our life. We haven't realized how automatically this state of mind recreates itself if we are not at home in our minds making those choices. How we feel is the choice that changes so much more than most people realize.
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How we feel is the choice that changes everything.
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PART1 – GETTING IN THE PICTURE
1. THE ROBOT MIND
Now this is where it really gets interesting - because in understanding something about the nature of this part of our minds, we begin to realise that we really do have the upper hand. And when I say 'we', what I'm referring to is us in the conscious mind. The one we think with and mostly know of as ourselves. In this course we will not only learn to converse with this world changing Genie, but it will also occur to us that this aspect of us has no mind of its own to argue with us.
2. CREATING THE VISION
What are the chances of this amazing life you want for yourself happening by accident? That this big fish will just jump in your boat without even casting a line? Zero. We have to clearly define what we want to see in the world if we are ever going to see it. We change the world into what it is, by what we look for in it. We are surrounded by the infinite, and we are training that less conscious part of us that controls where our attention goes to notice more of what we'd love to see. This part isn't rocket-science so let's not complicate it. How do you want your life to look? We have to have a picture in our head of anything we really want to start seeing, or the world changing mind remains clueless.
3. Creating Feelings from Thin Air.
I'll show you how this 'Law of Attraction' thing actually works, by giving you the piece to the puzzle they never told you about. This 'Law' is more like something that would be better understood as the law of 'Projected Energy'. The world always reflects the feeling and expectation alive in our hearts. Did you really think it was going to be that easy? The only difficult part is...
1. Validating the effect of the created emotion (so that we bother doing the work).
2. Realizing that the feeling that typifies our experience recreates itself on autopilot if we are not making those choices consciously ourselves.
4. Life on Auto-Pilot
There is a singular goal in this course and in life. I will express that in a few different ways to make sure the way that makes the most sense to you is clear. Here I present this goal as 'To minimize how much of our lives is lived on autopilot'. How unconscious we are to many of the choices we make and behaviors and beliefs that make up our life. And the way is simple - be clear on what matters to us and move towards it with intention. To live intentionally is to minimize how unconsciously we are living our lives.
There is a profound and unforeseen danger in allowing the autopilot and that is that we are allowing ourselves to be led by the same conditioned conclusions that were forced on us about what we are worth in the very beginning of our lives. Those same lies about our value have chained us to a life of dissatisfying mediocrity ever since and live in the autopilot settings.
PART 2 – TAKING THE WHEEL.
5. Seeing the Invisible
Have you ever had the experience of just buying a car and they start to show up everywhere? Where were they before? Hiding, or invisible? In this module we'll begin to paint the real picture of just how much other stuff is 'hiding' in our environment, and how easily we can start to see the things we'd love to start showing up for us like magic.
6. The Low Hanging Fruit
In order to keep those good vibes coming we have to create a clear awareness of why we may have previously not been able to create the life we wanted. We must understand how the human mind has evolved, and why it sometimes might feel like it is working against us. The human mind has been designed to conserve energy - and so is often lured by the cheap gains and simple pleasures that are neither cheap, nor pleasurable in moving us towards a rewarding life. In order to stop hating on ourselves for the position we might think we are in - we have to understand what has happened as a series of small natural steps that have moved us away from the one true source of pleasure. By those same simple steps we can have our lives looking remarkably different.
7. Answering Our Calling
So, we may not think we have a calling - or we may not think that we know what ours is yet. We may even think that having a calling is for those who want to become great leaders and doesn't apply to us. We can do anything when we have a good enough reason. We could walk across hot coals without fear of harm if we were rescuing our kids. In order to nullify the suffering that is inherent in every life requires us to define our lives. What is our life and what does it mean to us? We have to be doing something about the thing that bothers us the most. If we start to think that what we do doesn't matter, then all effort becomes pointless.
8. The Power of Letting Go.
This was my epiphany and I hope it will be yours also. Our minds are programmed to protect us. as a result of this, the subconscious has come up with a strategy that in order to protect us from past hurts it will keep putting us through them so that we become better at dealing with them. That feeling of being hurt is alive inside us and attracts more circumstances that match it. We don't have to keep reliving our worst nightmares once we decide we want a new experience. In letting those who have hurt us out of the jail of our judgement - we are the ones who are set free.